孩子们

对今时今日父母的教育方式 真的不敢苟同

对面家的爸爸 天天游手好闲
七早八早妻子骑motor出门后 就是他大骂孩子的时候了
他喜欢站在大门口喊孩子 好像闹火灾
骂的字眼和声量好像孩子干了滔天大罪 要斩首了
孩子不过小学几年级 他妈的 孩子是这样教的吗
现在他女儿也用一样的声量骂弟弟了 怎样？还不是好爸爸教的

隔几间家的妈妈 怀疑他虐儿并忧郁
爸爸很少回家 大门常常深锁
不时传来尖叫和藤鞭打桌子墙壁的声音
接下来就是独生子的 “我没有啦，不要打我啦..... " 夹杂哭喊

社会病了 家病了 人都病了
在这样的教育长大的孩子 会是什么样的人呢
就算没有家暴 也是陋习一大堆
家长们怕死自己的孩子会输 面子挂不住 要孩子做天才样样精通
逼着孩子学琴棋书画 逼着他们温习赶功课 然后对外炫耀
忘了孩子人格的成长 忘了孩子的喜好 甚至连孩子的脸都记模糊了
然后慢慢地, 问: 奇怪, 怎么我的儿子什么心事都不告诉我?
你用喊骂闹来教育他 他会喜欢和你说话吗

对此感触有点深, 因为我有一个喜欢打越洋电话告诉我几乎每一件事的弟弟 他小我11年啊
为什么在家里不说话 却常常打一个小时的电话给姐姐? 妈妈问他
有时候家长要问问自己吧

回来熟悉的土地 却发现令我摇头的事数不尽

在一个书法比赛 小学组的一个妈妈 一边骂孩子写得不像老师教的 一边帮孩子拉宣纸

在一间餐厅 4/5岁的孩子跑跑跌倒了 印尼佣人跟在后面
孩子笑咯咯地爬起来 跑向妈妈 妈妈却瞟了他一眼: bawa dia cuci tangan

在邮局 排在前面的小女儿 一直问 妈妈这个做什么的 妈妈你看 妈妈我会读这个字
妈妈连头都不转 一律ignore.

好啦 也许家家有本难念的经
也许我不是妈妈我懂个屁
可怜的孩子们! 没有人教你们, 你们长大了要自己懂事啊!



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I'm desperate for $!!
because I have this, this, that, that......etc. to buy!

Maybe because I'm used to having small earnings last year when working with Tam, now I'm eating, breathing, using but not earning at all. Its sad. :( Don't want to touch my savings, and don't want to ask from parents. 硬骨头都是命苦的！

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I am an expert in sending polite but self-promoting emails now. I send out 10-15 such emails each day. And I'm still jobless. F*

The level of desperation I am in even leads to the lending of helping hand by uncle, his dad. 远在Myanmar 的 Uncle 在 gtalk 跟我说 check out 几时几时的 The Star. 炸到

你在我心里，天下第一

你在我心里，天下第一。

一天里可能遇不到好天气，我可以寄人篱下暂躲避，

面对冷眼嘲笑，贯听闲言碎语，

两颗心长相伴，胜似神仙皇帝！

一生中就算遇不到好天气，不可以遇不到心爱的贴心知己。

没有温暖手臂，难煞凄风苦雨，

有你温暖手臂，天下温暖如春！

一生中如果遇不到你，即使做皇帝也没有意义。

你在我心里，天下第一

我一生中有了你的伴随，阴天也变成晴空万里！

你在我心里，天下第一

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多感人
有几个人可以甘愿不做皇帝，也要遇见那个人呢

Thank you. :)

I am back in Penang!

I would like to thank Dunston Rufus Har, for being such a good host despite all the pressure from work. After these 3 weeks, I start to wonder if he is a superman in disguise as an auditor.

• He never gets tired! He drove miles and miles, Cameron Highlands, everywhere in KL, Ipoh, Penang... I needed a two hours nap under the a/c after the KL-Ipoh-Penang journey, though my role is "to talk to the driver to keep him awake".

• He insisted on taking care of my lunch menu even though it was his working hours.

• He had to face the pressure of his vios being on the verge of getting scratched/knocked when I happily took it for a stroll along Jalan Ipoh.

• He had to bear with my horrible cooking skills and intolerance to cooking-related criticisms.

• I left out his socks on purpose when I washed our clothes, because I hate them rolling together with my tshirts.
  

• He had to keep his ears and eyes open for long hours even after work, because I want to talk!
  

• also, my strong shopping intention.
  

Thanks to your super power, we get to spend the precious time together in laughters.


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I've got an interview to attend tomorrow. And...I don't really know what to say.


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Dear grandpa cried when I visited him just now after dinner. It breaks my heart a little.
But I know you will be fine, we know you will be fine.

V.S.

It is almost time to end my 3 weeks KL trip.


Have been thinking these few days. Friends I met, new or old, they asked me about my future plans. I had been firm, I kept to my initial plan: I want to get a job in Australia and I am going back after chinese new year.


In June 2009, I was worried. Options were in front of me, to stay or to leave. In the midst of fighting a good fight in my honours year, this worry had been wandering in my heart day and night. However, as time passed by, as my thesis was finally done, the choice seemed to be crisp clear.


"There isnt much to think about," my heart said. I am going to stay, because this is what a science person will do.


Recently, I have doubts. I foresee this, actually. I know the emptiness is going to attack me when the time to go on a plane comes. I know I will be reluctant. But I also thought I have grown stronger. I thought I will be able to overcome this, and it ain't a big deal afterall.


Turns out it IS a big deal. The life is entirely different. Why would I leave my family behind when they constantly miss me so much? Why would I so-called "chase my dreams" when I actually belong to here? Why would I emotionally maltreat myself by making decision that I fear? Its not like I can't choose, the choice is in my hands, but still? Why would I let our relationship depend on emails, msn and phone? Why would I choose to leave him when the long distance make us argue like mad dogs? I keep asking myself why, why I pick the tougher path, why?


I admire the bravery of others. Some people went home to get married after getting 1st class honours. Some people went home after staying in Adelaide for years. Some people decide to open the door of opportunities and go wherever they want. Some people get a job in UK after completing honours in Australia.


I wonder if the long holidays extinguished my courage.

Protests after bomb chaos, what PM said:

“As far as possible, we do not want people to protest, but we cannot stop them from doing so if they gather at mosques and if confined to a certain area.We hope that it is minimal,” Najib.

You HOPE it is minimal by not stopping them. You made a wish to the shooting stars?


They think it is a political trap, because:

Fact 1: Sarawak and Sabah joined the Malaysian federation in 1963. And forty years later, they decide to ban the use of the word by non-Muslims? Why now and not then? For 400 years, East Malaysians Christians have been using the word and to have it suddenly yanked away, how does one suppose the community would feel at such a callous act? Where is the empathy from Umno?

Fact 2: The Herald has been in publication since 1994 with the Bahasa Malaysia supplement incorporated in 1995. I am very sure the officers in the home ministry must have vetted every issue for subversive contents but for 16 years, or at least 14 years (the last two years in dispute because of the usage of the word), why didn't the government reject their annual renewal application?

Fact 3 : The so-called BM bibles distributed in East Malaysia are from Indonesia. So are we to believe that Indonesia, with the largest Muslim population, is wrong while Umno is right in not allowing the use of the word 'Allah' by non-Muslim

retrieved from: http://www.malaysiakini.com/letters/121504

Who is this TUHAN referred to in our national anthem NegaraKu? Many "learned" Malaysians, including Mahathir Mohd., insist that Tuhan refers to the Christian God. So how now? The poor Muslim students at school assemblies all over the country will be so confused and traumatised.
retrieved from: http://niamah.blogspot.com/



I am pissed off!!!! Just what are they thinking? 1Malaysia is a joke when you tried so hard to ruin the peace. The more I read, the more I feel the boiling sensation.
Do people get confused by the way to address their own "tuhan"? Everyone has their own beliefs, it is just a term to address their spiritual guidance, why do we have to make an issue out of that?

So you have the trademark TM sign at the top right corner of ALLAH?

So what term should we use next time? "You-Know-Who"?

They say, "two is better than one"

The flowers which greeted me in Kl central. 231209

After an hour of bumping up the nearly vertical pathway - we are so close to the Cameron Highlandsy clouds. 271209

She is the 7 years old combination of angel and devil. 261209

He drives. I sing along to the radio, ignoring the traffic. We do it everyday.

你总是看不开 斤斤计较 很爱算计 但你还是太可爱

现在的你 心里算计的还是这些芝麻绿豆的人间琐事吗 还是天庭也一样有顾虑的

你遇见你日思夜想的男人了吗 他有牵着你溺爱的儿子在等着你吗

我镇静地接受你走了的消息 镇静地想 你一定平静含笑地走

你知道你的女儿们有多疼爱你的 对吧 不然你不会如此安排

固然你总是偏心 我知道你心里是再清楚不过的

对不起 我从来没有履行承诺

两年了 还没放长假前 我都想好了 要多陪你 听你说话 用字不正腔不圆潮州话和你谈天 为你解闷

可是我都没有做到 对不起 我没有做到

连今年头出门前都没向你道别

只在过年时匆匆地跟你说一会儿话 床铺都还没坐暖

可你不时出现在我的思绪里 因为你一直都于记忆里存在

你把别人给你的钱塞给我 叫我别让妈妈知道

我帮你洗头 洗毛巾 讶异于你的力大无穷

听你重复地说着陈年老事 佩服你的记忆力

听你算谁借谁钱 算术超好

还有你说起外公时 一脸的温柔

你永永远远都是最最可爱了 我会一直想念你

对不起 也谢谢你